Norma Lenora Williams

Norma Lenora Williams was born on January 16, 1945 to the late Marjorie and Norman Ross. On October 1, 2026, peacefully, Norma departed this life and entered into eternal rest.

 Affectionately known as Mattie, she was the eighth of eleven children. Born and raised in Alexandria, Virginia, she was the third daughter, growing up between two outspoken brothers who helped shape her into the quiet young girl she was known to be. She was a child who did as she was told, a quality that reflected her gentle, reserved and kind nature. 

Mattie was a faithful and devoted member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church from childhood until her illness prevented her from attending. St. Joseph’s held a special place in her heart, she faithfully observed traditions, including attending Sunday Mass, Midnight Mass and participating in the Stations of the Cross during the Christmas season. St. Joseph’s was more than a church, it was a spiritual home, an opportunity for fellowship, and a place of worship where her faith was nurtured and meaningful connections were formed. 

Mattie was educated in Alexandria Public Schools and carried fond memories of growing up in Alexandria being surrounded by her brothers, sisters, cousins and friends. Family meant everything to her, and some of her happiest memories were made in their company. She often shared stories of her childhood, including visits with her grandparents, being sent to the store to buy Apple Tobacco and listening to her grandfather play “Taps” every evening. She loved her family deeply. 

Mattie met and married Raymond L. Williams Sr, also a native of Alexandria, Virginia, who preceded her in death during the Vietnam War. She raised her children in Alexandria and built a life there until she could no longer live alone. 

Mattie also treasured the gift of lifelong friendship. She shared a special bond with her best friend of more than 70 years, Barbara Peterson. Their friendship endured through every season of life and was filled with love, laughter, music, memories, the occasionally hilarious argument and unwavering support. Their connection was a beautiful reflection of Mattie’s loyalty and the lasting relationships she cherished. 

Mattie had a special love for children which led her to open her own Day Care business. She cared for children ranging from infants to elementary school age, nurturing them with love, patience and joy. The children she cared for held a special place in her heart and many remained in touch with her well into adulthood - a testament to the lasting bonds she created and the impact she had on their lives. 

Music was another of Mattie’s great loves, especially Motown music, and she absolutely loved to dance. She was the kind of woman who danced like nobody was watching and never needed a partner to enjoy herself. If you planned to go dancing with her, you had better be prepared for a long night! She was known to arrive ready to dance and stay until the very last song. When she danced she felt free and joyful, and that was evident by the smile on her face. 

She was an independent woman, who lived life on her own terms. If she wanted to do something she did it - with or without you. She enjoyed traveling, whether on trips with the Elks Lodge or on her own adventures. She especially cherished the time she spent in Germany visiting her oldest sister. She also loved the music, food, fun and excitement of New Orleans, particularly the French Quarter where she made memories she would fondly recall. 

Mattie was lovingly cared for at home by her children, with devoted assistance of her caregiver, Latoya Lovitt. While at home she was able to remain surrounded by familiarity and the people who loved her during this important chapter of her life. During the final two years of her life, Mattie was lovingly cared for and supported by Andrea Easy and the compassionate staff of Three Angels Assisted Living facility. Their kindness, patience, and dedication provided her with comfort, dignity, and support. Her family is deeply grateful for the care and love they gave to her and for the peace they helped bring to her final years.

 Mattie is preceded in death by her parents, six brothers, and her son, Raymond L. Williams, Jr. She leaves to mourn and to cherish the memories made with her; her daughters, Lisa M. Williams (Emmanuel), and Tisa T. Duncan (Kareem); three grandsons, Orlando R. Williams, Raymond L. Williams, III, and Jordan A. Towler; her brother, Cecil J. Ross (TaWanda), three sisters, Shirley A. Smith, Carlotta M. Parker and Victoria M. Robinson (Barbara). two great- grandchildren, Tychay Carter, and Orlando Woods; special friends Barbara Jean Peterson and Juanita Carter, a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.